Make an Heirloom Moment

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What is one thing that you take for granted that someone does for you?

There are so many little things that we take for granted, don’t you agree?  Little things and big things.

What are a few of the little things and the big things that friends, family, colleagues, your pets, even some strangers have done and continue to do for you?  I encourage you to reciprocate and to let them know that you do appreciate their time, thoughtfulness, and effort.  It will be so very much appreciated!

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You know . . . the thing with feathers.

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I don’t know about you but I am one of those people who always feels excited when I find a random feather when I am out walking.   I feel especially happy when I find a Stellar’s jay or a flicker feather — two of my favorite birds.  There is something about finding this little gift that adds a sense of promise to the day.  I come home and add the treasure to a egg-blue bowl that is on the center of the table.

When the windows and doors are all open, the feathers lilt out of the bowl and tuck themselves under the couch or behind the laundry room door.  The small downy feathers are the most adventuresome, as they can travel the farthest.  I have even found a few feathers that traveled from the main floor up and over the rail to my open-floor office.  When I again find the treasure in the house, it feels as if the feathers found another opportunity to fly.

I know some people who feel that a found feather is a gift from a loved one who has passed.  It is a little message of love that says, “I am here.  I love you.”  I sometimes feel the same way.  At other times when I am needing a boost, I feel a strong affirmation that every little thing’s gonna be all right.

These little gifts from nature remind me that life is good.  That there is a good measure of synchronicity in any given day.  That if I keep my eyes and heart open, good things are always right here in my very presence.

Wednesday’s Prescription: Take a chill pill & blow some bubbles.

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Make time for some fun today.  For blowing some bubbles.  For some journaling about your dreams and your happiness.  Enjoy today. 

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Haktoys 1700G Bubble Gun Transparent Shooter with LED Lights

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And for your journal time . . .
Emotion Journal: Bubble Edition

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Stumping Miz Grammar

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It was once my privilege – and challenge – to take over teaching mid-year in a 7th/8th grade grammar class at a very small public school.  This school was the classic one-room schoolhouse, located in a remote, road-less area in the North Cascades of Washington state.  The children there had grown up navigating the trails of the high country, floating the rivers, jumping in the glacial-fed lake, and tearing up and down the dirt roads on their bicycles.  It was a land of no cell phones, video games, and Facebook – a place of isolated enchantment that could not and would not be fully appreciated until these students grew older, moved away, and worked in cities that involved the many technological trappings now associated with modern living.

You can well imagine that the students did not feel a passion for this grammar class – my predecessor having resorted to dry lectures and long homework assignments, and it was my job to take over and to inspire some interest for the subject.  Being a grammar nerd myself, I wasn’t prepared for the level of apathy that the students expressed.  I remember telling the students on the first day of class that I loved the subject of grammar so much, I took grammar workbooks with me on vacation so I could relax and just enjoy the fun of language.  They thought I was weird, maybe a little insane . . . but that was all good because I was committed to understanding why they weren’t more interested in the foundational components of their native language.  After all, this is grammar that we are talking about?!

We started the class by getting to know each other a little better.  Every Monday, we would each recount stories from the weekend while I grabbed key words from their telling and then write these words into the eight parts of speech grid that I had graphed out on the board.  Then we would play The Synonym Game and erase the word on the board with a different word that might convey the story’s meaning a little more vividly.  They began to see how word choice mattered – how you could use the adjective great and maybe use the word fabulous or resplendent instead.  It was a small step but it made sense to take what they knew – their experiences – and translate them into a Grammar Stew on the board that they shared.  I knew that we were growing stalwart grammar-ites when one student used the adjective ebullient in his re-telling of how happy he was that his grandma had come to visit.  It made me feel positively ebullient!

For homework, each student was to bring one question each day to stump me – Miz Grammar.  I wanted to demonstrate how remarkable grammar actually is . . . that no one has all of the answers – not even Miz Grammar!  I wanted them to see how language is an evolving work in progress.  Just ask the Apostrophe Protection Society!  We can’t stop language!  The biggest advantage in Stumping Miz Grammar was that this was a rural school and there was zero access to Google or the Internet.  This meant that the students had to use their textbooks to find the questions and answers to stump me.

I don’t know how I managed to stay ahead of the students, but it quickly became apparent that it was going to be tricky to stay ahead of their questions.  The students would see me at the post office on mail day and ask, “Miz Grammar, what is a gerund?”  “What is a dangling preposition?”  “What is an antecedent?”  They were becoming a team of grammar experts without the students even knowing it.  And how could they know if I knew the answer if they hadn’t done the proper research and found the correct answer themselves?

I kept all of their questions and, at the end of the school year, the students compiled the questions into categories and organized a community-wide, grammar-themed game show.  Parents were the contestants and prizes were donated.  In an effort to alleviate grammar anxiety – which was prevalent, I might add, what with their children being grammar experts by this time – the parents wore costumes and adopted various personalities as game show contestants.  It was a bonding experience for the community, and it was a source of great fun and pride for the students as they led the community down the road of grammar enlightenment.

It is funny how one little crazy idea can grow into something larger than imagined possible.  One of the students went on to become a published poet.  Another student majored in journalism and was the acting editor of a Chicago university’s newspaper during his tenure as a student.  Another student went on to become a freelance writer.  The pleasure that these students took in dissecting language into its most primitive parts gave me great joy as a teacher and as a grammar lover!

Learning objectives are important.  They are the brass ring on the carousel, the t-shirt at the end of the marathon, the cake from the cake walk.  But what I had intuited as necessary at the beginning of this grammar journey proved to be true: you have to build a learning community before learning can happen.  These amazing students created a Culture of Grammar.  They built a team first and then, without even realizing it in the process, mastered the actual objectives of the course . . . and had fun while doing so.

Am I proud of these students?  Yes!  It is our goal as educators to infuse a love of learning while learning.  Like metacognition, or meta-anything for that matter, it’s all about being within the moment while being in the moment.  These students taught me far more about life than I ever taught them about grammar.  They taught me about community and to trust myself when in the midst of a challenging and seemingly dismal situation.

It’s good to know that we don’t know everything.  We are refreshed and invigorated when we enter the unknown territories in which we find ourselves and embrace the evolution of learning and growing.  Just ask Miz Grammar!  She knows!

13 Steps to take when you don’t know something that you’re expected to know:

  1. Just say it.  Admit that you don’t know.
  2. Research. Find your answer.  
  3. Look for new sources and ask experts.
  4. Lean on your community.  Like a 3-legged stool, every “leg” in the community is essential.
  5. Learn more than you started out wanting to know.
  6. Share your knowledge.
  7. Share your passion for knowledge.
  8. Offer your knowledge and experience to someone else.  
  9. Be a mentor.
  10. Laugh a lot.  Laughter doeth good like a medicine — especially when you are feeling stressed about a deadline or an expectation.
  11. Don’t give up.  There is likely an answer available.
  12. If you can’t find the answer, create one based on all of the above.
  13. Become The Expert!   
become the expert

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Start with a Simple Idea

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It’s as simple as that.  Or is it?  We hear stories about people who are fulfilled and successful, motivated and inspired.  What many of these people have in common is that they started their Journey of Success with a simple idea that ultimately sparked growth in their personal lives while contributing to the world around them.

I had some crazy dream about Skylab, America’s first space station, last night — how I was trying to walk on one of its pinwheel arms while maintaining my balance in a gravity-free environment — not an easy task even within the fuzzy confines of a dream.  All of which got me thinking, mid-dream, about what a wonder the whole contraption of Skylab is.  Having experienced its interstellar wonder in my dream, I woke up thinking about how much research and groundwork and hope and intention and vision and forward thinking went into creating it.

Skylab didn’t just happen.  It started with a simple idea and it grew.  Maybe someone scribbled his or her original idea of it on the back of a bar napkin.  Maybe it was the result of some astrophysicists having breakfast together at a conference.  Maybe some scientist woke up with a detailed dream of it.  I don’t know Skylab’s true genesis, but someone had to take it and move it beyond a doodle or an entry in a lab notebook.

In a TED talk (click on the link below), Tony Robbins tells the story of his family receiving an unexpected and generous Thanksgiving Day kindness when he was younger.  As a teenager, Robbins wanted to pay this stranger’s kindness forward, so he anonymously provided a different family with a Thanksgiving dinner.  This generous and simple idea grew into the creation of an organization that now feeds millions of people.

I love stories like this.  Still, as inspiring as they are, they can also feel to be a bit overwhelming.  The obvious questions enter into my thoughts: How did Tony Robbins grow the organization from this one simple gesture?  How did he organize enough people to join him in his vision?  Where did he get the capital to grow the organization into such a large one?  Sure, the amazing and energetic and dynamic Tony Robbins could pull this off  . . . but could I?

Believe-in-yourself-and-believe-in-love.-Love-something.Details, details, details.  I so often get lost in the details.  If I were to look back on my life and pushpin myself onto any given past moment, would I have imagined all of the dynamics of Today?  Parts of Today?  Maybe parts, yes. But all of the amazing-ness that I now experience?  No.  I don’t think I could have foreseen a tiny glimpse of the bigger picture.  I had to take one simple step.  And believe.  And know.  And feed the vision.toaster oven

Skylab was originally launched unmanned but there were eventually several different crews delivered to the station.  On the latter missions, there was even an additional spacecraft orbiting to rescue the crew should they encounter any emergencies.  Imagine these baby steps.  First, unmanned.  Next, manned missions.  Ultimately, backup and support.

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And to conclude on an uplifting note . . . This is such an inspiring TED talk: Why We Do What We Do.  If you have 21:45 today to take the time to just relax and to open your mind to possibilities, this is a great TED talk.  In fact . . . watch it before you begin journaling.  The ideas that Tony Robbins shares will expand your thinking and your creativity and your perceptions of what is possible.

Saturday morning dance time!

I love Saturday morning dance time!

quote. dance-shoes-351119_960_720It’s time for some Dance Tune Boxcar!  Boxcar . . . you know the game.   The game where you recite compound words and the next person has to think of a new word that starts with the tail end of your compound word: MoleHill. HillTop.  TopGun. GunBarrel.  Barrelhead   . . . and on the frivolity goes until someone says something like HeadScratcher.  Then you are cooked.  How many compound words can you think of that start with Scratcher_____ ?  Game over!

Some of you played it at summer camp or at those fun Nerd Parties where, rather than sneaking booze out of the parents’ liquor cupboard, you played word games like Telephone, Scrabble, Mad Libs, and Boxcar.  [I think you can guess which category I fell into.]

Here is some Boxcar dance music for your lively Saturday morning.  Have fun dancing today!  If you can stop yourself from hopping up and cutting the rug . . . I don’t know . . . maybe you need to turn the volume up.  🙂

This Saturday’s Dance Boxcar: The Twist –> Twist & Shout –> Shout! 

Chubby Checker could really shake it!

The Twist

 

Twist and Shout

This song song was originally recorded by the Top Notes.  Such a great song!  I had to include two covers of this song . . . one for style and the other for audience appreciation!

 

Shout!

I don’t know anyone who can keep still to “Shout!” . . . truly.  Can’t you feel your feet tapping?  I can’t count the dance floors where the entire crowd was doing nothing other than pogo-ing up and down because there was no space to do anything else.

The Isley Brothers had it going on!  Check out their moves!

Life is short.  Dance like you mean it.

C’est tout bon! Photobomb your own life today.

 

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Paddy & Cleary’s spontaneous beach detour on their way to the Irish pub up the street . . . theunseenwordsproject.com

You just never know what you are going to discover on any given day.

Sure, these guys aren’t wearing a Speedo or a pair of board shorts, but they sure look like they are having fun.  And these unlikely lads remind me to embrace the moment, even when I feel like I don’t quite belong.  Like in those moments when I feel oddly ill-prepared for what is happening.

I think we all feel this way at times.  Like when it feels like everyone got the call of the memo but me.  Not so much like a duck out of water . . . as a duck actually looks pretty cute when waddling around . . . but more like when everyone has some sense of camaraderie or upbeat awareness or knowledge of this-or-that going on that I am not quite feeling.  I guess the word is Outsider.  Like when I am on the outside looking in on something that I am already a part of.

But then I look at these two jolly fellows, and I realize that nothing says Insider like being comfy with yourself in that very moment of your life.  Being present.  And feeling pretty darned comfortable, even though no one told you to bring your bikini and your beach towel because everyone is heading to the beach and you are part of the collective Everyone.

Embrace.  Be.  Opt for happy.  Know that this moment, too, shall pass if it isn’t exactly a well-suited one.  You don’t even have to kick off your shoes and feel the sand between your toes if you don’t want to.  You can be you in the way that works for you and have a good time even it it isn’t exactly conforming to some presumed norm.

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Maybe being present is a reward unto itself.  It’s enough to know that this is now and that was then and paradigms shift.  That I might find myself on the beach today dressed like the girl-version of a leprechaun and that’s okay . . . because after a day at the beach, the gang is all heading to an Irish bar that will include fiddling, cheering, clogging, tipping a few pints back . . . and I’ll be ready and in my element then, if not a bit saltified and sandified.

Moments pass.  Times change.  Life isn’t always going to feel Picture Perfect.  So why not do a little photo-bombing on yourself today.  If you are feeling like an Outsider do something fun for you that will make you laugh out loud.  See yourself in your own life, even if it feels you’re a displaced leprechaun . . . or even a skinny Santa playing the fiddle while roaming the beaches of O’ahu.

C’est tout bon!  It’s all good.

Be you.